Q&a

ok, this isnt ment to be rude or mean, because im not that type of person. this is just my opinion and advice, only a inference based on observations.so now you say your trying to keep your private life actually private, but you must know it will never work. people will find everything out and spread it faster then a forest fire. so it will nevr be private. if you havent realized it yet, some people consider you a quote, celebrity, which means privacy is over. and if they cant find every little detail out they will make it up, and thats not wat you want, not rumours but lies. yea, you dont have to address anything you dont want. but wouldnt it be better to clear the air, and just say it so that people know the truth and not lies. yea, its there choice to believe, but its hard for a person to just linger without anything to believe, human nature tells us that we need something to believe in, like faith. its like how people believe in whatever god it might be, just so they have something they believe in and think they know the truth about, so they can live their lives without constant worry, that may be more dramatic, but you get the point. plus the rumours that might get spread by tabliods also might make u look bad or sleezy, so i wouldnt recomend leavin the issue up to them.especialy after the article that practicly said you were just a boy toy until she was ready for a serious relation ship and made it seem like you didnt mind geting used, i think that was the best, it brought tears to my eyes, not from sadness, but laughter.so anyway, if you just adress the fucking rumours and dont go around them, there will be less questions, whispers, and rumours. and im sure if you have the respect to adress it, people will have the respect to leave it be, since they already know the deal and wont be budding in. your probably thinking that you been threw this before and know what your doing, ok, fine, you might think im a jackass, ok, fine, i might just be, but im sure people wont do something they seen had a bad effect. but, this is just how i see it, not because i want to know, because honestly i could careless, i know its your life and whatever you do you do, and i know youll hopefully make all the right decissions and thats all that matters to me. but yea, somepeople are just gonna keep going after you and trying to find it all out, and make up what they cant get, so like i said its better for the truth to come from you then lies from the internet and tabliods. and ofcourse this doesnt effect the music, because that will always be there, but you have to realize this is the effect of being close and communicating to the fans, yes, your the greatest dudes for doing so and thats why people love you more, but every action bares a consequence, whether the action be good or bad.there is always a price to pay, yea it sux, but thats life, no one ever said it was fair. it shouldnt be that way, but it is, reality check dude, nthings normal anymore, everything has changed around you, even if you didnt. oh,once you told me not to believe anything i read, i asked you then what should i believe since you sometimes say not to believe you, you said you werent sure. then said what does my heart and head say, i said i wasnt sure any more, then the topic changed. i know you dont remeber that, but you said it. my head could tell me that im 6 feet all, but that doesnt mean its true, and hearts only work for that four letter word, if even that, but anyway, yea, seems like your big on people believeing what they want, which is never a good thing, b/c people are not always good with decideing fact from fiction and leaving boundaries.k, im done, you can call me a ass, or hate me, whatever, atleast i got this off my mind, b/c i couldnt think about philosophy when the screen infront of me was so screwed up. oh, one last thing you said:believe whatever you want about anything you read. that sounded a little rude, as if you were saying believe what ever you want b/c your going to anyway because your all fucked up and stupid and ignorant like that. kinda pissed me off a little eve if you didnt mean it like that. respond to this or dont, it doesnt really matter, as long as you see this and understand where im coming from and trying to tell you, then all is cool. sincerly,A.D.